I shaved my mom’s head when I was twelve.
In 2018 my mom was diagnosed with stage 3 triple-negative breast cancer, and I wasn’t going to let her face the mirror alone. Tears ran down both our faces while I did it. I put on a fake smile to look brave for her, which no twelve-year-old should have to do.
Not long after, my grade school principal told me her diagnosis was not my excuse to cry. So I stopped crying and made a promise instead. Nobody standing where I stood should ever feel that alone.
The beach was always my peaceful spot, and Spikeball always brought my friends there with me. In 2021, at sixteen, I made a flyer, posted it to Instagram and asked a few friends to share it. Within days hundreds of people had reposted it. Two weeks later the whole town showed up, and the local news came too.
My life motto is to turn all bad into good. Every tear and every sleepless night from that year goes into one day on the sand, so that somebody in the hardest season of her life can look around and see how big her circle really is.
Zeke Kane, founder